Why is it so hard to find the parent to pay child support

My name is shyznia Vessel. And I really want to know why it is so hard for the child support people to find my son father. It is now two years since we being apart. Out them two years i have place him on child support and i have not received nothing. To me I wonder if they are looking for him. I know we was suppose to go to court, I will be there but he wouldn't. What should i do? Cause he is not taking care of his child. He is a dead beat dad. Who don't deserve the title of a father.

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get it together,did u put ur first baby daddy on child support,exactly
by: Anonymous

u knew all this when u met him how he was u wanna find him go to houston tx been out of louisiana,for 4yrs now

I am Female With 3 Children and an EX!!!
by: Anonymous

This is to all woman in general not just you...All you woman who go after men for child support are worthless, ok I understand it takes two in order to have a baby, abortion? oh no I don't believe in it either,BUT!!!That's your choice not the mans, if you aborted the child because he didn't want the child, then you wouldn't be in this situation, and if you had the child then that's your problem DEAL with it...

Child support ruins peoples lives and it's crazy how much people have to pay.I'm sorry but it doesn't cost that much to raise a child. Some people don't even make that kind of money in a lifetime. OK so the man cheated on you and still wants to be part of his children's lives, for goodness sakes DON'T Punish the CHILDREN!

OK so you and him don't get along anymore and you have a big fight and he just don't want anything to do with you or the child, Well good for you and the child that means he was a complete piece of trash,in the first place... so why ! would you want his dirty money!

What every, child support is trash I take care of my kids on my own, and never would I go after my EX HUSBAND, even If he was trash to me and my kids, He might just one day grow up and change his life for the better, and If I put child support on him that would just ruin his chance to even have a life. GOD will judge him when the time comes, therefore I will not judge him now...

Your a mean person
by: Anonymous

Are u for real. Don't trash mothers for asking fathers to take responsibility for their children.

you stupid soul
by: Anonymous

you must be a deadbeat father too or a man that can't get a woman to be posting stupid crap like this. if a woman want child support then let her try to get it. is it fail that a man can make a child but don't do nothing nowhere close to helping her out? a damn lie. darn you my lost soul. you got to be a retard forreal.

jive mothers
by: Anonymous

Get a life.what about the whores who only place men on child support just to do it. Some kids never see the money. Seems to me u do better workin sumthin out with the dad. Whatever u think ur gonna get child support is gonna take 3/4 of dat so u still wind up with nothin. Instead of always runnin to the PEOPLE try first with the dad. But 99% of u women today dont file child support for the child its just your way of gettin back at the father. Now for the real women if hes not handling his business then tax his ass but dont do it cause u have nothin else better to do or because u cant think for yourself and r being controlled by outside forces.GOD DONT LIKE UGLY AN HE NEVER SLEEPS! Believe dat. File for the right reasons , not because your mad . An i am a mother who worked it out with my sons father

think about it
by: Anonymous

Are u trying to get support cause u really need it or just to have somethin to do cause u cant think for yourself. Iam a single mother with 2 kids and i didnt go after child support. I worked somethin out wit my ex. I did it cause i need the money not to make him suffer. If hes n jail how r u gonna get paid. Even though he left i know how he was wit his kids wen he was here. We grew apart. So wat grow up. He really came on hard times so we worked it out. Now i get 100% of the money by dealing wit him instead of through child support.if u think for 1 minute your gonna get everything they take from him, baby you r lost. How do u think welfare and their wages get paid! From the money u were so dying to get, or just to b mean u might think u have won but ur not. Cause if u was in it for the money to help your child u wud never have filed. Any woman that has filed no they dont get all they money. So y file? Just to say u did? To gave somethin to brag about. The so called money u say u need so bad is not comin to u. All iam sayin is if u really need the help try talkin to him first. I promise u n the long run you will come out ahead. Just ask any woman who gets it. Ask them if they get wat they thought. I bet all of them say no. Now if he doesnt want to do it that way then file. Take him for everything. If u r filing cause you need the money then talk to him first. But if you r doin it just to get back at him then u r not lookin out for the child only to get revenge.think about it. GOD DONT LIKE UGLY AND HE NEVER SLEEPS! Do it for the right reason not just to b mean. From a single mother like you. Just think about wat i said an ask any woman u know that gets it. An i bet she'll tell you she wishes she cud have worked somethin out with the dad. Thats wat i did. Cause once u get that LITTLE PAYMENT hes not obligated to give u nothin else that month. Think about it. May god bless

think about it
by: Anonymous

Well if he doesnt deserve to have that title of a father tell to sign his rights over he need to ask for a DNA test going through all of this and he might not even much be the daddy the father Red and the son dark as hell,and his baby girl bright skin you gonna learn better know what you doing shyznia M Jackson Lol u funny you just really bitter and mad thats y u doing this

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