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My situation is hopeless.

by Skyler
(Hollister Missouri )

Okay so I was going to college and had completed a year. When the new year started I met this girl named Hope. We started dating and she was great. I fell in "love" with her. Well my mother has been battling cancer for quite some time now and she was coming up on a seriously bad situation with it so I left college to be with her. Well shortly after I left I found out that Hope had been messing around on me for a long time. Pretty much the entire time we were going out. I never knew this because I worked a lot and was stupid enough to trust her. Well we had sex. A lot of sex and after I find out all of this I obviously broke up with her. She found out shortly after that of course she's pregnant and says its mine. I'm 20 and she is 19 and is insane. She is very two faced and lies habitually. She threatened me with child support and I already have to pay around 1800 a month on bills of my own just to survive.

I'm from Missouri and I know that the minimum ammount I would have to pay would be 320 a month and her family is well enough off and her dad is a state trooper so I know they would suck every penny they could out of me. I however want to move to Australia. I always have and always will. She is due around the end of June or early July. I don't want anything to do with her or the child and I know that sounds bad but I am not ready for a child. I don't really like kids but I know I would whenever I find Mrs. Right. And with that being said I also know that if you play adult games you pay adult prices so I really shouldn't have stuck it in her but there again I thought she was the one. Well I would like to know what would happen if I moved to Australia before she had the child what would happen and if I would have to pay child support if I left before there was a court date. Could u also tell me a scenario of what i could do to get around this. I work at a police station right now and a hotel. I have an apartment. She lives with her aunt and is jobless. Thanks. Please respond fast cause I would like this nightmare to end.




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You play, you pay.
by: Anonymous

Here is what you need to do.
1. Grow a pair.
2. Accept responsibility for your child if it is yours. It didn't ask to be born.
3. Stop thinking so much about yourself.

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