Missing in Action

by Madina
(Virginia)

My child support case is one that is very unique and extremely heartbreaking, because I cant seem to get anyone to listen to me about my situation with the father of my children. The man that I have children with is not an ordinary man. I have come to the conclusion that he is committing a crime.


My kids father has 14 children by 8 different women and has several open child support cases. He intentionally does not work, and also refuses to work. He survives by bouncing from woman to woman, and he collects donations from people in order to have money for himself. He is basically impossible to locate even though I know that he lives in Los Angelas California.

He has stated to me that he was going to get as many women pregnant as he can and bare these children, because this is the way of Islam. He claims to be a Muslim. Even though he has this desire which he is fufilling he does not support any of his children and he ends up abandoning the women that he was involved with. He then just moves on to the next victim.

What I don't understand is that I have been explaining this to my jurisdiction agency trying to tell them that he really needs a warrant for his arrest. He also needs his face to be posted everywhere for America's worst child support evader. He is committing a crime. Why wont all of his child support cases become linked up so child support can see what he is doing?

Now, I am very ill and I'm on disability. I'm responsible for my 5 children, 3 of which are his and I also take care of my mother who has schizophrenia. I do all of this while he walks around traveling and having sex without a care in the world. I'm upset that nothing can be done. I would even like to get on national tv to expose him.

I don't know how to get any help and the sad part is everything that I am saying is true. I am so heartbroken, because I didn't know all of this until our relationship ended. Now I know what's going on, and he doesn't help me or the other mothers. Can you give me some advice?

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This is a shame
by: Child Support America Staff

Hi Madina,

This situation is terrible. Be sure to check with you local child support agency because they might have a non-custodial parent locating service.

These services are free, and they can help to locate your kids father. Every state does not have this service, but your state may offer it, so give it a shot.

Also try to hold it together for your kids, and your mother because they need you. If you ever need legal help please look at our legal help page. Well take care, and you can contact us anytime by simply leaving a comment to this message.

Thanks,
CSA STAFF

HI
by: CATHERINE

HI MEDINA I HAVE JUST READ YOUR SAD AND VERY FRUSTRATING STORY.I WAS WONDERING IF HE IS AN ILLEGAL CITIZEN OR AN AMERICAN CITIZEN?I BELIEVE ALSO SOMETHING SHOULD BE DONE WITH THIS UNJUST SITUATION.MAYBE YOU CAN PURSUE ABANDONMENT CHARGES.TAKE CARE

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