I live in Chicago my child is 19yrs old my ex husband lives in new Mexico he is taking me to court to get out of arrears. A hearing officer will be hearing the case at 2 phone hearings the hearing officer he stated I have to reopen the case and appear in person 10/14/2010. I had my case heard by my attorney in Chicago I now have the judgment 9/14/10. I am going to new Mexico pro se what can new Mexico over rule? I did did not reopen the case in new Mexico . Has anyone got advise for me?